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POLL: When Should OWI Offenders Receive a Felony Charge?

A nine-time drunk driver is arrested outside Wauwatosa as State Sen. Alberta Darling pushes to make three offenses a felony. Is three the right number?

 

When prosecutors recently charged a woman for operating a vehicle while intoxicated for the ninth time following an arrest near Wauwatosa, it underscored again the issue of Wisconsin’s drunk driving penalties.

The laws are considered some of the nation’s most lenient. Drunk driving does not become a felony in Wisconsin until the fourth offense, one of only seven states to wait that long, according to an article in the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel.

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State Sen. Alberta Darling (R-River Hills), who represents Menomonee Falls, Whitefish Bay, Fox Point, Bayside and other communities north and west of Milwaukee, is pushing for tougher laws.  Her last attempt, authored last summer, died in the spring legislative session. She sought to make the third offense a felony, while also toughening penalties for first and second offenses, including at least five days of jail time for even the first offense.

The issue is complex, but our poll is simple — when should operating while intoxicated offenders be charged with a felony? Vote in the poll and leave additional thoughts in the comments below.

  • How many OWI offenses should trigger a felony charge?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • One
        16 (12%)
    • Two
        54 (40%)
    • Three
        45 (34%)
    • Four
        10 (7%)
    • Five
        7 (5%)
    Total votes: 132
  • Your vote will only count once. This is not a scientific poll. View Results Vote!
Related Topics: Multiple OWI and Patch Poll

KKP

7:16 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

FIRST of all, making the FIRST OWI a CRIME would be a good thing, instead of it being a misdemeanor. It should be a criminal offense. If the first offense involves injury to others, it should be made a felony.
Needless to say, 2nd offense and higher should definitely be felonies. It's time we stop coddling these people. If they want to drink to excess, let 'em, but don't you DARE get behind the wheel if you do.

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Sinead

7:55 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Totally agree. It's time to stop the insanity Culture of Alcohol that Wisconsin supports and promotes. Few social gatherings can occur without alcohol...I atteneded a picnic last weekend -hosted by a large coorporation- where NO alcohol was served nor did I see any carried around. GREAT event! 3,4,5,7,9,11 DUI's is nothing to brag about. Where's the outrage at those figures? Let's start a strong campaign to change the laws...now. You or someone in your family could be the next victim of this state's liberal position on the abuse of alcohol. Seems like the abuse of innocents doesn't matter, does it?

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Jaime Sommers

8:33 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

It is not even a misdemeanor - yet.

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Tommy K.

12:25 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Unless it just recently changed, the first offence in WI is a traffic violation, not a misdemeanor.

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JW

9:41 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

I would totally support this IF they made some changes to account for the BAC more intelligently. There is a massive difference between someone being .09 (which was legal years ago) and being .12 or higher. The tradeoff to making earlier offenses felonys should be making lower BACs a simple BUT EXPENSIVE ticket. I am not sure whether anyone should be a fellon on first mistake, however, at some BAC level that should be the case. Anyone driving who is completely trashed should always go straight to the felony level. Likewise, while I personally think .09 should only be a ticket for anyone who has never crossed the higher level cutoff (.12 or so), it should count as a repeat offense for anyone who had crossed the .12 in the past. .12 is a guess at what would make the right cutoff. The problem with BAC level is it is sort of like BMI, it doesnt provide the most accurate and appropriate measurement for everyone. It does not really take into account tolerance. Some people are pretty tipsy at a low BAC and others are quite functional at a .08 BAC. Anyway, it should be based on severity of violation more than number of times.

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DocBubbles

10:40 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

JW, no one is 100% functional at 0.08, 0.03 maybe, but we are not talking about that.

KKP

8:06 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

My friend's four year old son was killed by a 7th offense drunk driver. I am SO angry with Wisconsin's lax stance on this CRIME and the ridiculous penalties associated with it. Why is Wisconsin so eager to protect the drunk driver instead of their victims? I wonder how much the Tavern League has to do with it. Look at other states' views and penalties on drunk driving - Wisconsin's are a JOKE in comparison. No WONDER we have so many drunk drivers here in Wisconsin!

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pooksilby

8:24 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

The Tavern League in WI is a force to be reckoned with. This lobby group plays a key role in our state's culture of alcohol. They have way too much influence on our laws re. alcohol.

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Jaime Sommers

8:32 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Wisconsin is the only state in the nation where a first drunk driving offense is not a crime, rather a traffic ticket. In 2009, the state made improvements to their DUI law by requiring interlocks for first time convicted offenders with a BAC of .15 or greater. MADD is working to require ignition interlocks for all convicted drunk drivers, legalize sobriety checkpoints and to make a first offense a misdemeanor. http://www.madd.org/drunk-driving/state-stats/Wisconsin.html

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Fred Wordell

8:44 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Keep it simple. First OWI is a misdemeanor with a punitive fine. 2nd offense a felony. No pussey-footing around. You screw-up you get a second chance to keep it right!
This might be the mule and a 2x4 school of motivation!
It's how you engineer cultural change. Now, who is against that?

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KKP

8:49 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Hear hear!!!! PERFECT!!!
You get ONE chance...pay a penalty...and if you do it again, you get the book thrown at you. AMEN!!!

Greenfield Resident Too!

8:45 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Let me see; YES. Had a relative who parked vehicle on street. After bars man with history of DUI hits her car...someone sees it calls cops, cops locate him, and he is arrested. Property damage was estimated at $2,500 to car (remind you she is in bed sleeping when this happens). She goes to court two times finds out that he has a DUI history and judge says stand in line to get paid as he has other property damage and fines to pay before they get to her. Ten years later no money! I think the laws in Wisconsin are too laxed that is why we have soooooo much trouble. LAWS are LAWS (sounds like a good bumper sticker) including driving without licenses and insurance but that is a whole other issue that should be enforced!

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wfb51

8:48 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

I would make the third a felony. I feel (and I had a family member hurt by a drunk driver) that the first shouldn't be a felony but perhaps there should be "levels" - i.e. .08 a isn't as bad as, say, twice the legal limit. Make the law more punitive for higher levels.

Our kids have tried calling cabs before and it isn't easy in Milwaukee or, especially, the North Shore. It is way easier in other same-size cities. Do we need more licences for cab drivers? Let's do all we can to make it easy for people to NOT drive.

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KKP

8:52 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

I don't think the answer is more cabs. I think the answer is less drunks. If you're going out with a group, have a designated driver. Or, how about this....DRINK RESPONSIBLY!! And if you're not able to drive when you're done drinking, there's more than cabs...there are friends..there are busses....there are relatives...there are parents who always say "if you have had too much to drink, call me, I don't care what time!"

But ya know...bottom line....know when to stop drinking. And if you can't stop drinking, drink at home where the only one who gets injured will be YOU when you fall down and whack your head on something.

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Tommy K.

12:46 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Three years ago I called a cab(s) to take me downtown for an event that I knew would involve drinking. I called at 7:00pm and was instructed to leave a message, and by 10:00pm I still had not heard from them, and calls were still going to voicemail. Good thing I wasn't already out or I would have never gotten home. How is it that you can get a cab in Hurley with no problem, but not in Racine? We now have Safe Ride though. Has anyone on here had a chance to use it yet?

Brian Wirth

9:07 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Make the third time a felony with mandatory sentencing, no plea bargaining. If other citations are issued for the first 2 arrests (speeding, property damage, etc.), those other violations count toward the 3.

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superdavefive

9:21 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

A felony conviction sticks with you forever. I agree that there should be very stiff penalties, but a felony before the fifth conviction would not be justice. As a recovering alcoholic I know that sometimes it takes a couple of pullovers before you get the point. Having to live your life as a felon should not be the consequence.

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KKP

9:23 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Tell that to the victims.

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superdavefive

9:43 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

What would be the purpose of taking away hunting rights of a person based on getting two drunk drivings? I drank a lot when I was younger but that doesn't make me a bad person forever. Stiffen penalties, but keep the felony convictions to habitual OWI offenders.

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KKP

9:51 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Maybe the purpose would be that a person who likes to hunt would take into consideration the fact that he won't be able to hunt anymore if he does it again, and then make the choice to NOT drink and drive again. Drinking isn't the issue. Drinking and DRIVING is. If you want to get blotto, go ahead and do it, just don't get behind the wheel and drive afterwards. For gosh sakes, this is why we have such an issue here...people feeling more sorry for the drunk drivers losing their "rights" than they do for their victims losing their lives! How about a little bit of sympathy for the innocent victims who had no control over their fate? Tougher penalties would at least make people think twice about drinking and driving. And if they don't, well then....let the felony charge stick.

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superdavefive

10:16 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

You write assuming there was a victim. The punishment you propose does not fit the crime.

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DocBubbles

10:22 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

You have to wait until someone is killed or severely injured? You want to still, since you obviously are incapable of learning that you have a problem, drink and hunt?

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KKP

10:24 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Bottom line...don't commit the crime if you don't want to be penalized. It's that easy. You wanna drink, go ahead and do it. But don't endanger others by your lack of sensibility, responsibility and good judgment. And if you do, well then...you deserve what you get. Easy decision here....don't drink yourself blotto...or if you must, then DON'T DRIVE. Easy peasy.

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Cricket

10:57 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

That argument is lame superdave five. Someone with 5 convictions should never drive again, and personally I don't want to be around a drunk with a gun either so they should have their hunting rights revoked as well. Throw in voting rights too because can they really make a rational decision on that either if they or drunk. Having to live your life as a felon should absolutely be a consequence.

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Randy1949

11:06 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

@superdavefive -- I'm sure you know that some people never get the point, no matter how many pull-overs and OWI convictions. Even with a revoked license, they'll keep on drinking and driving. We need to either incarcerate those people or find a way to render them unable to start an automobile. Alcohol-sniffing ignition locks are useless. But an ignition that required a certain level of alertness and reaction time is quite feasible in this age of Smart Phones and hand-held games.

I think I might appreciate one of those when I'm 86 and cold sober. It might keep me from killing myself or someone else.

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Lois Liebau-Templin

12:43 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Dave, there are so many people who have been stopped for drunk driving, more than five times, and still do not get the idea as to how dangerous they are to others. What about those who have lost their licenses, and still they are stopped for DUI? Did they get the idea? No, they think that they are super-human, and can do no wrong.

Sheepshead

9:28 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

.08 for some people is 2 beers. How many of you had a couple beers at dinner and felt totally fine?

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KKP

9:35 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

First of all, this is why I have always maintained that lowering the legal limit is not the answer. 9 out of 10 times, it's the person who blows .18 or higher that is causing the problem. That being said....when my husband and I go out, ONE of us will have ONE drink. The other can have however many he or she wants. The one who is driving has one drink - or none. It's called being responsible.

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Shorelander

9:56 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

".08 for some people is 2 beers." Yes, if you are a 80 pound woman, 2 beers in 2 hours is .08.

So, yes, Sheepshead, if you know any 80 pound females, do tell them that 2 beers in 2 hours would put them over the limit.

http://bloodalcoholcalculator.org

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Cricket

10:44 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Maybe you think you feel fine but perhaps you are not. .08 is determined by body size, food in the stomach, metabolic rate. 2 beers for you is not the same as 2 beers for a 90 lb woman that has not eaten all day.

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DICK STEINBERG

8:48 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

that is not the problem. it is a scientific fact that a person who consumes any amount of alcohol has their reaction time diminished.

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Karen

1:12 pm on Monday, July 23, 2012

Well Im certainly not an 80lb woman, and if that is true, thanks for clearing that up for me. Because if I do go to a bar, which now a days doesn't happen often, I always stick to 2 beers, I do feel fine, and thats why I stop there.

Amanda

9:34 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Maybe it should depend on how much over the legal limit you actually are. If you dont figure out after the first time that you shouldnt drink and drive then it should be a felony. You can say alcoholism is a disease thats all fine and dandy but driving is a choice.

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KKP

9:38 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

And quite honestly....not everyone who drinks and drives is an alcoholic. For some, even the DRINKING is a choice.

b authentic

9:47 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Stiffer penalties for inattentive driving. Lets include the idiots that are texting, applying makeup, shaving, changing clothes, etc. while driving. Alcohol impairment is not the only thing that causes accidents, death and damage.

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KKP

9:54 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Agree with this....saw one young lady not long ago who had a cell phone in one hand and a half-eaten apple in the other...I don't know what she was using to steer - perhaps her knees??

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superdavefive

10:18 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

I think Karen should run for political office. We'd have to build a lot of prisons to hold all of the non-violent felons she plans to target.

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Cricket

10:46 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

superdavefive - I agree with everything Karen has had to say. Plowing into someone while drunk driving seems to be a violent event. What is more reckless than getting into 2 tons of steel while you are impaired?

Nuitari

9:54 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Everyone should be allowed one, because .08 is a joke. You could easily leave a family function after 2 drinks to reach around that. It's not like you have to pound away all day at a bar like most drinking opponents tend to believe these drunk drivers do.

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Shorelander

4:49 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

No, Nuitari, 2 drinks would not "be around .08" .. unless you are an 80 pound female.

Here's a more factual scenario. Your family function takes ~3 hours. The 175 pound man gets 5 beers, and he's still under .08. The 6th beer, he's over.

Wisconsin being full of the more portly, the man is more like 200, hey, he gets to drink an entire 6-pack and he'll STILL be under the limit of .08.

So don't spew that crap that 2 drinks = over the limit in an attempt to make the current laws look harsh. For most non-tiny people, .08 is plenty of drinking.

http://bloodalcoholcalculator.org

Randy1949

10:07 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

What about laws against compromised driving, period? People's reaction times can be affected by age, illness, fatigue, and legal medication in addition to alcohol. Unfortunately, all of these conditions leave a person unable to judge their own fitness to drive a motor vehicle.

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DocBubbles

10:45 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

So tell me, why are so many drivers cited for 0.08? They were doing something wrong to alert the cop pulling him/her over.

And 0.08 was chosen because:
The NHTSA (National Highway Traffic Safety Administration) has found that at 0.08 or below there are problems with, divided attention, tracking performance, information processing, psychomotor skills, visual functions, simulator driving tests, and reaction time, and less than 0.10 for concentrated attention and perception. This comes from a 1994 analysis of 177 published studies. (http://www.house.leg.state.mn.us/hrd/pubs/aclimit.pdf p. 10) Incidentally, less than 0.08 showed impairment some of those driving skills.

Be aware before you turn that key. You might not feel the effect, but it is there.

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Randy1949

10:53 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

That makes me wonder how many drivers are pulled over for 'suspicious' driving behavior and have to be let go because they haven't been drinking, yet their reactions times and alertness are compromised by other things.

I do think our culture of 'social drinking' which often means consuming alcohol at a party or a tavern and then having to travel distances to get home is a part of this problem.

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Lois Liebau-Templin

12:23 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Many of you are getting off of the issue. First, get the drunk drivers off the road. Then, if you have a problem with the people who do dumb things while driving, we can address those issues. Stay on track, and help solve this problem, first.

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Randy1949

3:01 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

No, putting all the attention on alcohol ignores the danger from other factors that compromise drivers.

"Oh, I haven't slept in 36 hours, but I'm sure I can make it home safely . . ."

"I take Oxycontin for my pain, but it's legally prescribed. I'm not like one of those drunk drivers . . ."

Either one of those people is quite capable of killing someone, even though they haven't drunk a drop of alcohol.

Fred Wordell

10:08 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

To AWD
Really? Walker recall petition, anti-pesticide people? You are the person unwilling to change, unwilling to challenge the culture of, as you say, demon alcohol! Perhaps you line-up with the lobby fighting any restriction on OWI? Please explain yourself. Oh, BTW, I'm to the right of Scott Walker and a staunch supporter of him.
This not a partisan issue. It's a common sense issue!

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Juliojones

10:40 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

A total joke! So glad I am leaving this place! Good luck with the rationalizing WI

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Cricket

10:52 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Alcohol abuse is the elephant in the corner. We all know or have known people that drink too much but it is a prickly subject to broach. We all chalk it up to so and so just needs to unwind or wants to have a good time. It seems to be even worse in Wisconsin and is often worn as a badge of honor. Terrible.

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Cathy M

11:04 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

I am happy to say that at least my daughters friends are "getting it". She does not drink, as she should not since she is only 20, but her older friends sometimes do. She leaves functions or gets out of bed at 2 am when they call to drive them home on the rare occasion that they do drink too much. I believe the laws are too lenient. We all know what we should do if we would drink too much. Problem is your judgment is impaired when you drink and confidence goes up. Bad combination when deciding if you should drive or not. Not likely to make a 'good choice' at that point. Not sure what the answer is but I know if my family were harmed or killed by a drunk driver.....no laws would keep them safe from me!

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Kathy

11:20 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

**5 DUI's and back to drinking and driving!** I am sickened by the laws in this state that permit a person with multiple drinking and driving citations to be allowed to obtain driving privileges back! Guess what - driving is a privilege and NOT a basic human right! My neighbor has 5, FIVE!! DUI's, she served 3 years in Prison and released in 2010. She is on probation and continues to drink as well as having driving privileges. She is not even suppose to be in possession of alcohol! I have called Port Police at least twice to report this person because I've listened to her speak of driving to Milwaukee festivals, DRINKING and driving home. It is just a matter of time before she kills someone on the road as she has ZERO respect for herself thus no care or respect for anyone else. The woman claims to be bi-polar and unable to afford medications so she self medicates. How is this person slipping through the system when reports are being filed on her? Where is the probation officer? Case # http://wcca.wicourts.gov/caseDetails.do;jsessionid=E717F6A5F4B44DD02F1600B1813F3114.render6?countyNo=45&caseNo=2006CF000220&cacheId=09263C35B815D9EC7C018B693890E630&recordCount=1&offset=0

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Anonymous

12:43 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Kathy,
I agree with you on this one. If you have money for alcohol, you can afford your medication. I am living on $500 per month and about $300 of it goes for meds and doctor visits. The other $200 goes towards food and toiletries. I have always taken care of myself and NEVER have skipped my meds or doctor's visits. This is why I am so angry that my ex was allowed by the courts to use my illness against me and make me answer ON THE STAND to taking Prozac and Wellbuterin! Yes, I had a really bad 2010 and lost control over my mental illness due to harassment from my ex that I HAD NO CONTROL OVER!!!! Trust me...I would rather be diabetic or have some illness that people understand and doesn't cause you to lose your ability to reason if pushed to the edge.

I have be dissociative episode free now for two years. Since the accident, I have cut off all communication with my ex, have been through PTSD treatment, and have quit working (doctor's orders.)

All I'm saying is that I don't think I should be labeled a felon for what I did! I accept the consequences, but I think this was put on me only because my ex knows Atty. Tim Kay (who is now a Waukesha judge...imagine that.) My attorney said he has never seen the book thrown at anyone so harshly. Tim Kay (my ex's divorce attorney) was also the state prosecutor "randomly" selected for this case... hmmmmm?

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Randy1949

12:56 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

@anonymous -- The exacerbation of your illness may not have been under your control, but getting behind the wheel of a car was. If you had killed someone, illness or not, they'd be just as dead. That's where the felony comes in.

People with mental illnesses that cause decreased judgement should probably not have drivers licenses or cars.

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Anonymous

1:44 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Randy!
Yes! I totally agree with you! I don't own a car anymore and don't drive! I admit whole heartedly that I am not mentally stable! I even have a doctor that will attest to that! However, that brings me to my next question... how am I supposed to live? I have a felony so I can't get Section 8 housing and the state has turned me down twice for SSDI! I even had a daughter that I gave up for adoption about a year ago because I admit that I can't take care of her. I called Waukesha HUD and told them my situation and they said that my only option was to "hit the streets."

I do have an attorney to help me with SSDI but he says that it can take 3 or 4 YEARS to get it (I'm about two years into the process!) Meanwhile, I have to be a "legal prostitute" to avoid being homeless? Do I REALLY deserve THIS?

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Kathy

4:09 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

@ Anonymous & Randy- EXACTLY what Randy pointed out, that being; perhaps you should have not been driving at all. When I could work no more and filed for SSDI I started a new treatment with new meds. When approved for SSDI I decided I wanted to try and work PT. I drove for county ride share taxi, during my comeback my meds were switched again. The new meds affected my driving, I stopped working and driving. #1 - One of the meds for pain and I could get a ticket for that. #2- I could not live with myself if I caused any issues. IE: one time while driving I forgot where I was going and why on the road I was on. So...even knowing you have episodes you still made the choice to continue driving, and you were drinking. You're husband (ex) did not force you into a car, YOU made the choice. The court will never see it any different. Shame on doctors for not advising you to not drive. I am a firm believer that people with mental illness need a representative to assist in life choices, sadly there are not enough people to place in these positions. People with mental illness are still viewed as a threat to themselves and society, it's an out-dated mindset as it is the medicines that stabelize. It sounds like you got a raw deal but let go of the hate, your posts tremble of anger. Move forward VS stewing over what happened because you cannot change that. You have the power to change the future, won't be easy but nothin worthwhile ever is.

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Randy1949

4:32 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

@Kathy -- People with certain forms of mental illness ARE a danger to themselves and others unless they can develop the insight into their own conditions that warns them that their judgment can be very poor even on medication. Bi-polar individuals can feel so grandiose at the top of the cycle that they decide not to take their meds or that they can drink and drive. Conversely, the depression can lead to reckless behavior.

I had a bi-polar relative who took her own life in an auto crash, seemingly with no thought to the other deaths and injuries that might have been caused. What do we do with these individuals? I have no idea, but institutionalization or incarceration might be the last resort for people who cannot control themselves.

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Anonymous

4:33 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Well, yes, I agree! I shouldn't have been driving at all. But I honestly had no idea that the clonazapam prescribed to me would have this effect on me when mixed with my extreme stress. Right after the accident, I was taken directly to the mental hospital where I spent a week. The doctors there explained how clonazapam was making me dissociate (dissociating means that you act without being aware of it.) Both OWI's occurred within the short period of time that I was taking PRESCRIBED clonazapam. I quit taking it immediately and sold my car. I have not driven since the accident nor have I taken any other prescription benzos. I really had no idea that prescribed meds could have this effect on me. Okay...I'm done. Everyone keeps telling me it is my fault for dissociating...whatever. I don't take the damn pills or own a car. I haven't since I was given the information about the drug. I have even quit working and only leave the house for groceries and doctor appointments. My $500 per month runs out soon and this is the money I spend on meds, food, and doctors. Hopefully I get SSDI benefits before that happens... it doesn't look hopeful.

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Anonymous

4:36 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

I say just shoot us... it's more cost effective.

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Randy1949

5:00 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

I'm sorry, but the first OWI should have been a clue, especially mixing tranquilizers with alcohol. One can't complain about the second offense being a felony under those circumstances.

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Kathy

5:57 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Randy - I agree to a point.
@ Anonymous: More excuses. "I did not know the med did this and that...." i RESEARCH every medication the doctor gives me. The FDA requires the pharmacy to give you information about RX...READ IT. Now your anger turned on forum posters with a passive aggressive statement of "just shoot us...." All the more reason I am for loss of DL after 1st offense because someone like you on the second offense got into a wreck and could have killed someone....Like Randy stated, the first one should have been a wake up call. Instead more excuses...just like my neighbor ...who still drinks and drives because her life situation is not her fault and no one helps her. No one helps me either and I didn't break any laws. *insert violin* Im not trying to be mean...it's just reality. MOVE FORWARD.

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Kathy

6:19 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

PS @ Anonymous; You stated not drinking for two years. Congrats - you have beaten odds for relapse so give yourself some credit. You're not the total mess you see yourself as. ;-)

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Randy1949

7:06 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

@Kathy -- I'm usually much more sympathetic, but I began to catch a tone here. It was everybody's fault but anonymous's. "My husband caused me stress and made me take tranquilizers and drink, and then he stole my money, and now you people made me a felon so I can't work." A therapist might say there's still some work to be done here. Prescriptions say right on the bottle not to mix with alcohol.

About mental illness, modern medicine has its limitations still. With bi-polar disorder, medication only eases the highs and lows; it doesn't flatten them entirely. Without an understanding of this, a person may make some very poor decisions during the highs and lows. It may get so bad as to be beyond their control. And then they, and the rest of us, need protection.

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Anonymous

8:18 pm on Wednesday, September 5, 2012

I can't work because I have an adrenal disorder...nothing to do with the felony. I see I will get no sympathy here or anywhere else.
Goodbye.

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Kathy

5:22 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012

So Anonymous, you came to a forum about drunk driving laws as a two time offender seeking sympathy? Hmmm you cannot work now because of PTSD and adrenal disorder? You're a felon so you qualify for no sec 8 housing or asst. WOW. I have a very painful syndrome and worked , I also worked thru chemo,I worked until my legs gave out and then even after I got SSDI I went back to try and work. You want sympathy from me? You appear to have some computer skills, all the time you spend posting could have been put to some other gainful time. my .02. People help those who try to help themselves.

AWD

11:21 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

This Karen Pierce person reminds me of my Mother always complaining about my Fathers drinking. Women hate drinking, it's a man's game and they've hated it since the Women Christian Temperance Union days. There is a reason 82% of all Alcoholics Anonymous members are female. Women just do not have the self control that is needed to handle alcohol in a responsible way and obviously they like lashing out hysterically at those of us MEN who can handle our booze and still drive. Karen, stick t o your anti-pesticide rants, you’re out of your league on this topic.

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Randy1949

11:26 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Congratulations AWD -- you just added sexism to your already avowed racism.

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Kathy

11:31 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

So what are the talking points on the issue AWD, really no need for personal attacks on a forum. OH and PSSSST - As to your claim of 82% AA members beinbg women. I do not believe there is any exact data on gender of AA members, it's called anonymous for a reason.

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Lois Liebau-Templin

12:37 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

I am a non-drinking alcoholic, or a recovered one. Whatever way you want to say it. In 1978, I drove home, a mile away from the restaurant I was at, without remembering what I did on the way home. I sat down in a chair, and cried!!! Realizing that I could have killed someone, and would not have remembered it!!! That was my last alcohol drink. Women have the problem, too. Please get your facts straight before you make those type of statements. It does not take alcohol to make a male, a man. The desire to have a drink stays with you, for all of your life. You just need to have the faith to not have a drink. I have respect for men, and women, who do not drink alcohol. especially when it is promoted so heavily by the beer, and liquor, industries.

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KKP

2:19 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

AWD, you are so far off base. No, I don't hate drinking. I hate the irresponsibility that goes along with it. If you want to drink, drink! Just don't put others at risk because of your choices. The man who thought he could handle his booze and still thought he could drive killed my friend's four year old son in broad daylight and then left the scene of the accident, leaving my friend holding his dying son in his arms.

If you truly think that women are the only people getting pulled over for OWI and that men can drink as much as they want and then drive a car responsibly, you are beyond help.

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Shorelander

4:54 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

A 2004 study had the female AA population at 35%. Google is your friend.

https://www.rienner.com/uploads/49aea19b76747.pdf

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Lyle Ruble

8:02 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

@AWD....LMAO. You just keep getting better over time. Any more posts like this last one and they'll be trying to identify you so they can come and take you away, putting you on some good psychoactive medication. The only good thing about that is that you'll have to give up your CC permit and have your weapons confiscated.

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Gregory Kluck

9:21 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Really AWD? That thinking went away in the 60s. I suppose you subscribe to the area of thought that permits a husband to beat his wife.

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Terry

11:37 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

ugh... fire good.... woman.... bad drivers... bad drinkers... ugh... me go bed now....

Cathy M

11:27 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

AWD... maybe more women than men have the common sense to do something about their drinking if those numbers are correct. Mens egos have a tendency to get them into soooooo much trouble. Don't you think?

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Cricket

11:31 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

AWD - your problems run deeper than this column has enough room for. You obviously have mother/women issues. I hope for all womens sake that you are not married or ever have plans to. Perhaps give up dating all together. Women hate drinking yet 82% of AA members are women, perhaps men don't seek help? I don't think you can handle your booze AWD or much of anything else for that matter.

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Cathy M

11:36 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

It seems to me that alcohol is not discriminatory, biased, politically sided. gender partial or age sensitive. It can effect anyone given the opportunity. And yes, many consider it a disease. If untreated it can and does kill taking innocent people with it. If you have a disease you go to the doctor to get treated. You do what you can to survive. Alcoholics don't want to admit there is a problem. That's the problem. Getting help and wanting to survive is the key for some. God help the rest of us when we are on the road until then.

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DICK STEINBERG

11:36 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

in WI a 1st OWI conviction is a Municipal Court case and is a civil action. penalties include license revocation, alcohol counseling, interlock, money fine and 6 demerit points. the local court setting has worked well. a 2nd conviction + is a Circuit Court action where jurisdiction is for crimes and the defendant can have a jury trial. (no jury trial in municipal court). the argument over the incident being a civil case, a misdemeanor or a felony does not in itself solve the problems. more jail time creates more jail space for inmates, which is not always available. one improvement in the system is to have a special court, municipal, circuit, or newly created, to take only OWI cases. lumping them together in court with traffic and disorderly conduct case results in a lack of special attention. there are special courts for drug cases, family law cases and juvenile cases, so why not.

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Rudy Sparks

11:39 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

A person who has too much to drink decides to sleep in his car rather than drive. Cop finds him and gives him a ticket for drunk driving. Is that a felony? A woman in a campground wants to listen to the radio in the car. She had been drinking. Cop doing a regular check of the campground gives her a ticket for drunk driving. Is that a felony? Those are real stories. They happened to good people I know. Any law of this type needs a gray area. There is a meter on the Dash that tells you how fast you are going. No excuse for speeding. Only the cop has a meter to tell what you BAC is.

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DICK STEINBERG

8:43 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

see my post below. by now these people have learned what the law is about being in your car while sleeping or whatever. those people had the right to defend themselves and to an attorney, a court trial or a jury trial. the law is very precise in those cases. the issue of being a felony depends on what number of convictions there had been on the person's record, not what they were doing at time of arrest. in WI if this is a 1st OWI conviction it is a civil case in municipal court with no jail time, but with other penalties.

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Unions_NO

2:35 pm on Monday, July 23, 2012

As a former police office with the certification to administer the Operating While Impaired tests and the Intoxoimeter (machine at the station that measures BAC) I can tell you from the comment above that ///"A person who has too much to drink decides to sleep in his car rather than drive. Cop finds him and gives him a ticket for drunk driving. Is that a felony..." UNLESS they are passed out with the keys in the ignition and the motor running - THEN they might get a ticket.

Cathy M

11:51 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Dick, would you broaden that idea to any crime committed while UTI of drugs as well as alcohol? Interesting idea. How would something like that effect the court system? Better or worse? Have a broader scope of crimes and yet more finite set of consequenses for actions?

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Bernard Forand

12:39 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

This, on the face of it, at first seems particle. However; how about we tie in with the amount of intoxication per arrest. Some of you may be driving intoxicated without your knowledge. Is an offender who had 3 beers, or a couple of glasses of wine or one good stiff shot, be as guilty as one who is completely saturated? Think not. Is this going to be a precedent for other crimes? Example this guy has stolen from my store a pound of hamburger and this is his third or fourth time. Felony? Your child 5 years old, has been reprimanded 5 times for bullying or misconduct. Felony? Does producing more felonies for the community serve to aid it or not?
Laws have a tendency to take on a life of their own once passed. Fueled by the profit syndrome of lawyers and even the judicial incarceration scenarios. Private prisons would enjoy additional prisoners. Municipal prisons can use the additional prisoner population to raise taxes for additional institutions and cost for incarceration. No me think this should be investigated for a more practical solution. One that is not so eager to remove a citizens rights and liberties. We are already at 5 times greater , per capita, then all other of the western civilized nations. Are Americans 5 times more criminally inclined or is our judicial system require an overhaul?

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DICK STEINBERG

8:30 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

most municipalities only have a holding cell to keep prisoners for a short period of time.

Lois Liebau-Templin

1:07 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Sandman, we will pray for you. Life is difficult, and all of us need to be strong. We need to stand up for what is right, and fight what is wrong. You, myself, and so many others, spend each day fighting pain, sorrow, and our own weaknesses. If you do not have faith, I truly pray that you find it. I wish you the best.

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jackie

3:50 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Holy Cow, the response regarding this issue. Wisconsin has some of the lenient laws regarding drinking and driving. Georgia: First and second Offense. Jail time, fine, community service and probation. A DUI conviction or plea of "guilty" or nolo contendere will be a permanent part of your driving record and your criminal history. It does not "come off" your record after five (5) years... it never comes off your record.

Florida: 1st Florida DUI Offense

First Drunk Driving Conviction (Note: BAL = Blood Alcohol Level)
•Jail – 6 Months Maximum (BAL from .08 to less than .15)
• Jail - 9 Months Maximum (BAL above .15)
•Fine – From $500 to $1,000 (BAL from .08 to less than .15)
•Fine – From $1,000 to $2,000 (BAL above .15) or Minor in Vehicle
•License – Suspended from 180 Days to 1 Year
•Hardship Reinstatement – Complete DUI School Prior to Hardship Application
•Ignition Interlock Device – Up to 6 Months (Hardship Reinstatement BAL above.15)
•Community Service Fine - $10 for Each Hour of Community Service Required
•Community Service – 50 Hours
•Treatment Program May Be Allowed in Lieu of Imprisonment
•Vehicle Impound – 10 Days
Now these 2 states have 2 chances, the third time is a felony. These penalties I have listed are for first offense.

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DRC

11:35 am on Monday, July 23, 2012

unless your an NFL player....part of the problem is the laws are never enforced as written...depends on who you are or what attorney you can afford...

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Karen

1:06 pm on Monday, July 23, 2012

Good For Florida!! I wish Wisconsin would have something like this. Even half of this would be better!

Jory Pradjinski

4:42 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

There is no excuse for getting an OWI, these idiots kill too many innocent people and deserve no mercy. These are likely some of the same people who think they are capable of texting and driving (which is illegal). The problem is that they take innocent lives with their stupidity. Get caught once and lose your license for a year and be required to go to AA. There's way too many bleeding hearts who feel everyone should get away with whatever they do. Yet when these morons lose a loved one to drinking or texting while driving they'll scream bloody murder. Maybe there should be an IQ test to be an adult.

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Pennyluhu

4:53 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

AWD- is that a__hole with d_ck? First offense=crime with $5000 fine AND 60 days community service cleaning along roads. 2nd offense=felony. The Tavern League should be held more responsible for allowing bartenders to serve the obviously impaired. Can't wait to see comments on that. Can't always blame politicians, poor things usually just being puppeted by lobbyists.I'm not naive-I have a history (distant past) of substance abuse and thank God I never hurt anyone or got a DWI. I agree texters and others driving distracted should be stiffly penalized when caught driving also. What does pesticide have to do with this poll? Are people huffing Raid with the Endust? Maybe that's AWD's excuse. Go on, hit me with your best.

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Str8shooter

5:47 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Wisconsin is one of the few if not the only state that a 1st is only a fine. 2nd and 3rd are misdemeanors and 4th is a felony. Any offense can be a felony if there is serious injury or a child less than 16yoa. I'm fine with the 3rd becoming a felony but even more importantly the courts need to start sentencing people to jail time. It could be someones 2nd offense or it could be their 9th but that doesn't matter if the judges don't sentence drunk drivers to jail time. I think 2nd offense being a misdemeanor is fine because it allows judges to sentence 6 months to a year but judges just aren't doing that. The law doesn't need to change...the sentencing needs to change. Bartenders and bar owners shouldn't be held liable for what another person wants to do. They don't know if they have someone else driving or are walking. Responsibility needs to start being put on offenders in this society. The laws already allow people to be sentenced for 2nd and subsequent so the change needs to be with judges in Wisconsin.

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Str8shooter

5:58 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Read through most if not all the serious police arrests on the Patch. Most if not all are repeat criminals, not just drunk drivers. These people are already felons and on probation but continue committing various crimes. The only thing to stop them is to be sitting in prison. Compare the penalties for OWI, robbery, burglary, drug crimes, and others in Wisconsin to other states and youll see people in Wisconsin just don't get jail time like they do in other states. So judges need to start using the already available sentencing options.

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Kelly

6:58 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

I am against ruining lives if there has been no damage done or if there is no victim.

However, I am for the death penalty if you kill someone because of your drunk driving. Maybe that would reduce the number of drunks who would chance getting behind the wheel.

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Str8shooter

7:22 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

The penalty should be increased if someone is hurt or killed but you are then agreeing to drunk drivers playing Russian roulette. Is shooting a gun into a house acceptable as long as no one gets hurt? I agree that the intent to hurt someone is not there but the knowledge that it could happen is also there. Lives are being saved by a multiple drunk driver going to jail...not ruining a life. The death penalty AFTER someone dies isn't preventing anything.

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Kelly

8:14 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

@Str8shooter. Did you read the post by Rudy Sparks? Why should someone listening to the car radio at a campground and not driving now have a CCAP record? Do you know how expensive and damaging receiving an owi can be?

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Kathy

9:27 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

It's pretty simple, the citation is called operating a vehicle while intoxicated..leave the keys out of the ignition if you have been drinking. To me it is like the people who drive with expired tags for months after expiration, and then when pulled over and ticketed they will complain that they HAD to get to work...yet on the way to the grocery store.

DICK STEINBERG

8:36 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

the OWI case law defines convictions in cases of sitting in a parked car, sleeping in a parked car and cases where the parked cars motor is running or is off. the potential defendant usually admits driving the car before being parked. the only exception I know of is being parked in your own car in your own driveway, and even then each case differs on the facts.

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Str8shooter

9:30 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Case law is very specific to owi in a parked car. They must admit to driving or the car must be running, keys in ignition etc. One can also not be convicted if being parked in your own driveway. It must be property open to the public or private property with at least 4 individual residences such as an apartment. The courts have seen those rare instances and have come up with rules for almost all of them. This case law exists to protect people from such convictions. And if someone is convicted of a more minor offense than the judge has the discretion as they do in all cases when it comes to sentencing. Problem solved. But to say it can be a 10th offense with no one dying is insane and then to jump all the way to the death penalty when there is no intent to kill with OWIs. That thinking is all over the board.

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Terry

11:33 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

To be more specific, the actual case law is that they must have manipulated the controls necessary to put the vehicle in motion. The car actually does not have to be running. All else appears correct.

Michael

8:13 am on Monday, July 23, 2012

Changing laws wont help to reduce fatalities. If you put one drunk driver in jail, another person will take his/her place driving drunk on the road. The only way to stop drunk drivers is to make alcohol illegal. That's not gonna happen, so we have deal with people killing our family and friends by driving drunk. Sad but true.

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Karen

1:01 pm on Monday, July 23, 2012

You know for me, the thought of getting pulled over from driving drunk is enough to keep me from doing so. Most adults that have the common sense, it will be enough.
Unfortunetly, many many many people DONT have COMMON SENSE! So I agree trying anything is better than saying.."we just have to deal with it". I will NOT accept anyone taking my children, because "we just have to deal with it. Really?? I hate to be your child.

Steve ®

8:25 am on Monday, July 23, 2012

Murder is a felony

I never hear about anyone getting murdered

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Annoyomous

10:49 am on Monday, July 23, 2012

Driving should not be a felony, not even drunk driving. It should be punishable with jail or prison time: extended with each offense, with mandatory classes and restrictions on driving to and from work, These people are not felons,and should not be labeled a felon, WE are labeling people for minor offenses today just an a way for the lawyers to do more work. . Having a felony on your record eliminates a persons ability to find a good job, they are labeled for life and many young people make the mistake of drunk driving. If drunks and cause an accident that injury's or kills someone that requires charges under the laws of killing intentional or unintentional. This mentality says we should arrest every teenager that is under 17 that is having sex or babies as sexual assault cases or statuary rape, but we turn a check at al these young people who need a lot more help and education..

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Anonymous

9:36 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012

Thank you. This is all I am saying. No one actually got hurt in the accident. I served my sentence. I've been through counseling. I've paid my fines. I don't drink anymore. I don't own a car anymore. Isn't that enough? I have an adrenal disorder & suffer from major depression. Because I'm labeled a felon and gave my newborn baby up for adoption last year to a local family that could care for her right before serving my sentence (I chose NOT to have an abortion,) I cannot get Section 8 housing or Badger Care. So now I need to choose between being homeless or a legal prostitute. My point is, I did my time and paid my dues. DO I REALLY DESERVE TO HAVE TO CHOOSE BETWEEN BEEING HOMELESS OR A LEGAL PROSTITUTE WHILE WAITING 3 OR 4 YEARS TO GET SS DISABILITY BECAUSE I HAVE A DUI FELONY?

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Randy1949

9:56 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012

What is a 'legal prostitute'?

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Kathy

2:50 pm on Thursday, September 6, 2012

Highly unlikely you will get SSDI for depression and adrenal disorder. In another area you stated PTSD...which is it? Nothing is physically preventing you from working, the adrenal is treatable. The SSDI lawyer will tell you otherwise, he gets 20%. SSDI benefits are approved based on 2 mental and one physical or 2 physical and one mental that prevents work for 12 months plus or will end in death. I got my SSDI with no lawyer, and I've tried to go back to work twice. Referring to yourself as a legal prostitute says to me you are living with a man and having sex in exchange for shelter. Does he know this? I so, this is enough to qualify for womans shelter, call advocates. Honestly I think you should try and work, feeling productive might see you gaining a better view of yourself VS playing the victim. "No one actually got hurt" as to your drinking citiations. I thought one time you said car damage and person paid off - thats emotional stress, or are you only allowed that?

Karen

12:55 pm on Monday, July 23, 2012

Speaking of Murder..someone goes to a party, gets drunk, plays or starts wielding a gun shoots and kills someone. vs. someone going to a party gets drunk, gets behind the wheel hits someone, kills them. What is your definition of murder? Both used a "weapon"!! It should be a felony! You consciously go out drinking with your 'buddies''however do you consciously make a responsible decision to arrange for someone to remain sober to drive you, so that not only YOU get home safely but others around you can as well. It makes me so sick, that people get behind the wheel and can KILL others, and yet the drunks always come out unscathed and oh yes better yet with a SLAP on the wrist for a punishment. BS it needs to STOP!

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Michael

4:42 pm on Monday, July 23, 2012

My kids think I'm a really cool dad

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Str8shooter

6:20 pm on Monday, July 23, 2012

In order to be sentenced to prison one must be convicted of a felony. Prison is a year or more and jail would be punishable for less than a year so if you feel killing someone from drunk driving should be more than a year, the only way to make it happen is by making it a felony. I do feel there is a difference between shooting someone and killing someone from drunk driving because the intent to kill is not there with drunk driving. The judges however do need to start utilizing the ability they have to start sentencing people with multiple owi offenses to real jail time and not the typical 10-30 days.

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Bailey

9:27 am on Tuesday, July 24, 2012

There's no room in the jails for all of the OWI drivers. Literally. That's the biggest reason why people aren't being booked on their first offense. I also think the first OWI should lead someone to being arrested, but there isn't room.

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Str8shooter

10:45 am on Tuesday, July 24, 2012

I agree with there not being room in the jails and court system but we need to start questioning our politicians why there is room in the jails and court systems in every other state for drunk drivers and all other crimes but not Wisconsin.

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Johnny Paycheck

11:51 am on Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Wisconsin has 5x as many drunks as any other state... perhaps more. Locking them all up would bankrupt the state.

Str8shooter

7:25 pm on Tuesday, July 24, 2012

But it's not just drunk drivers. It's many other crimes that people do little to no time compared to other states. And other than the obvious of having so many bars, maybe we should ask why we have 5x as many drunks...maybe because drunk drivers don't do real jail time? If it would cost me a bit more in taxes to know criminals were being sent to jail I'd be fine with that as I feel dangerous people off the streets is worth the money.

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Andrew McKee

12:10 am on Wednesday, July 25, 2012

I have a friend who cost himself a police career with his "One time mistake". The thing about drinking and driving 1st offense is it is never a "1st time mistake", it is just the 1st time they were caught.

80+% of cars on the road on a Friday/Saturday night at 2:15AM are driven by impaired drivers. It is the culture in this state, it is socially acceptable to have an OWI it seems. I had a friend who lost her best childhood friend to a drunk driver. It was I believe his 5th offense in 3 years. We all know people who can function fine at .08 sure, hell some people posting probably drive better at .08 then the average 16 year old. But it is more about a cultural change. I would like to see more small businesses pop up to serve the drinking public as a result. Getting a cab is overly expensive and the delays are HUGE. Wisconsin needs a cultural change as to its drinking, it is something we do better then anyone else, and it has been socially acceptable, and to a degree encouraged and that needs to change for the betterment of all of us.

Now with that all said I would MUCH prefer to be on the road with a bunch of drunks then with idiots who text and drive...but that is a different argument.

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Anonymous

4:27 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012

I got my second OWI with injury (the guy never went to the hospital.) I am mentally ill and my ex-husband used that against me in my divorce to steal everything I own (Judge Kiefer-Waukesha Co.) After 2-1/2 years of being put on the stand for being on Prozac, being stalked, having my parents lied to about all of the times I cheated and lied to my ex (they finally see that he was just manipulating them) I finally cracked. I started taking prescribed tranquilizers and mixing them with alcohol and started to dissociate due to the pressure I was under (my ex took out a life insurance policy before the divorce...his plan was to drive me to a nervous breakdown so that I would kill myself) and got in my car and tried to run away. I got in an accident (thank GOD the other guy wasn't actually hurt...however, my ex used the $80,000 he stole from all of the equity in our home & credit card advances before our divorce was final to pay off the guy I hit to not settle with the insurance company.) The accident happened about three weeks after the divorce was final and I realized I had lost everything (except gaining half of the credit card debt.)

Prior to this...I was a business owner that paid taxes and supported my ex financially for ten years! Now, I'm a felon with nothing. I even lost custody of my son.

I've been through counseling for PTSD and severe depression since the accident. Is this really justice? Should I just kill myself? I haven't had a drink in over two years!

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Kathy

5:48 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012

@Anonymous: I have empathy for you, empathy not sympathy. It sounds to me like you are blaming mental illness and marriage for DUI's? I hope I am wrong because real recovery is about being accountable. Life is about choices, sadly poor choices have consequences. You made the choice TWICE to drink and drive. My neighbor has 5 DUI's and blames that on being bi-polar, yet she refuses to take her medication, she blames everyone for her losses as well.

You Lost Everything? Hmmm I bet your still driving. Past Biz owner nd now Im a cripple who's husband ran off with a married woman, he drained the accounts and left me with all the bills and no way to get around. I didn't make a choice to be cripple, or to have my husband do the cruel things he is. I did though chose not to be a victim and to rebuild. Your journey to ruins a bit different but the path to self worth and accomplishment the same. Walk Like a Goddess mDear. Best Wishes...

Gregory Kluck

4:48 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Anonymous, hang in there. Don't give up. You can start over. Might be slow and it might be small...but you can overcome this trial and tribulation. I certainly did.

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Anonymous

10:29 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012

In response to Kathy... NO, I am NOT driving. I do not even own a car. I take my medication daily (always have) and since the accident (the first OWI was about nine months prior to the second (about 1.5 years into the divorce. When you dissociate, you have no control over it (you only have control over the stress that triggers an episode.) So I quit working immediately and filed for SSDI, since I can only control the stress in my life which leads to these dissociative episodes where I start drinking and try to run or wake up in someone's yard or some horrible place.

Since quitting working, cutting off all contact with my ex, and going through extensive therapy for PTSD and major depression (including inpatient treatment) I haven't had any more dissociative episodes in just over two years. My doctor says I can't work or have any contact with my ex or I will relapse, however, I've been denied for SSDI twice now (it's been over two years.)

I guess I'm just sick of hearing how this was ALL my fault! How could I have stopped contact with my ex in the middle of a horrible divorce? He harassed me daily. Driving me to a nervous breakdown was HIS plan and HIS PLAN worked. What about HIS share of the responsibility? Is it okay to use someone's illness against them, stalk them, and drag them down until they "snap?"

Now that I'm a felon I can't get Section 8 housing. I live with my boyfriend who financially supports me... be a prostitute or be homeless... Now THAT'S a CHOICE!

Gregory Kluck

10:40 pm on Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Anon, I didn't know that your docs have suggested you not work. I still say hang in there. There are law firms that can go to bat for your SSDI claim. I know your financial situation is hard, but at least look into it.

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jackie

6:11 am on Thursday, September 6, 2012

Anon, Its going to be a tough journey back. But you have to fight for it. Sounds to me like you are giving up because all that has happened. I am dead set against drunk driving regardless of reason and I will tell you why. Like many others, I lost my love one (mother) at the age of 14yrs old. The person ran after he rear ended her causing her to lose control and hit a truck head on. The driver of the truck was also injured. Back then the laws on drunk driving wasn't as severe, the people got little time. My point? When you drive drunk, you affecting everyone involved. If you kill someone because of whatever reason, Do you really think the family of the person you killed is going to care?. They are going to ask, then why drive if you have health issues?. Drinking is a responsibility, if you have the conscience to drink then assume the responsibility. Get a room nearby and walk there. Get a desiginated driver. Drink at home. Drink responsible. I know there are people out there who has a drinking problem. But after the 2nd DUI, you would think people will learn their lesson. 1st Dui is a mistake ( everyone is entitled). 2nd is plain stupid. Anything after that is a problem drinker, Or someone who doesnt care.

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Patti S.J. Mackenzie

12:01 pm on Friday, February 1, 2013

Thing that I think is very bizarre is that there are top officials in this state that magically have their hard copy documents disappear before the data even hits the CCAP or what is now known as 'Wisconsin Circuit Courts Access' website. I know this for a FACT! It's NOT a fair system considering there are those that do go out for a cocktail reach out for assistance from the drinking establishment for a safe ride to their destination and find themselves set up or left with a choice of walking in the freezing cold or dying in their cars from exposure.

'If' this state chooses to display 'all' cases on their legal website then there should definitely be some repercussions for the people or establishments that over pour their patrons and allow them to walk out the door!!!! The establishment should be held legally liable and pay money for having also contributed to a crime and should go to jail too. It's far to easy for establishments with the ability to serve the liquor to coheres a patron into a next drink, and a next despite the fact that the patron does not have the 'mens rae' or mind set or criminal mind or intention to drink and drive and truly believes that he/she can put his/her trust in the establishment for a safe ride to his/her destination only to be booted out into the cold because the establishment 'plays a mind game' and decides to close early and tells them that they must leave the establishment, out into the sub zero weather with no where to go.

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